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在结婚前就该搞清楚的问题

近期结婚的人很多啊,下面是来自生活帮的一篇贴,做做看。

为了避免草率结婚,抱憾终生,最好先互相问清楚下列问题:

1.准备要孩子么?如果要,谁来担负主要抚养责任?
暂时不要,要?当然老婆养啊!这题太BT了!

2.家庭财政的责任和目标清晰么?是否能在理财观念上达成共识?
俺一手支天,一致共识:勤俭持家。

3.日常家务如何分担?
谁先回谁做。目前:俺买菜做饭,老婆洗碗洗衣拖地。。。。

4.彼此清楚了解对方的身体和心理健康状况以及健康史么?
应该都健康吧,没传染病。

5.是否象对方期待的那样彼此关爱?
Yes.

6.是否能开诚布公和轻松愉快的讨论对性生活的需求、取向以及恐惧。
errrr,跳过

7.卧室里放电视机么?
不放。

8.是否可以真诚倾听对方的观点和抱怨?
Yes.

9.是否清晰了解对方的信仰和精神需求,以及未来如何在这些方面培养自己的小孩?
Yes.

10.喜欢和尊重对方的朋友么?
Yes.

11.能否尊重对方的父母?担心父母会影响彼此的关系么?
Yes,不担心。都很开明&&实在。

12.我的家人在什么地方会让你不快?
目前没有。

13.是否有什么事情,你我是不会因为婚姻而放弃的?
暂时没有。

14.如果一方因为事业关系要搬家,另一方会跟着去么?
当然。

15.彼此信任对方对婚姻的承诺么?相信可以一起面对挑战么?
当然。

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